"This book
isn't about hate, or homophobia, but a sincere desire to protect
the innocent from harm."
- Derrick James, Author.
Renowned therapist and family counselor Derrick James brings his decades of expertise and experience coaching singles and married couples into his first book. He’s traveled the globe and provided guidance to both men and women as to how to win in today’s complex and perilous dating world. After recognizing similar patterns (and tragedies) in many of his clients’ stories, Derrick felt it necessary to provide the public with a no-nonsense, straight-forward guide for women to navigate today's modern dating landscape, filled with pitfalls and traps that can lead to devastating outcomes for all involved. A must-read for women everywhere.
"I just wish this book was available earlier - I could've saved my daughter from an HIV diagnosis at the age of 23."
"My "fiance" turned out to be the biggest joke that I ever played on myself. I found out he was sleeping with other men in the most horrific way - I contracted an STD for the first time in my life, along with finding explicit pictures of other men on his phone. To add insult to injury, he began telling my friends and family that my sleeping around was behind everything, something that I never did. To this day, I still have trouble trusting men. Thank you for writing this book."
"I became the victim of a narcissistic liar and pretend homophobe that I trusted with both my body and mind. I was raised in a Christian household where family was everything. I was naive and knew nothing about other lifestyles. I'm not using my real name in sharing this, but I'm not ashamed. I just wish I could go back in time and tell that young version of myself the truth about what's out here. I encourage other women to buy this book, if not for yourself, for your daughter(s). It really is a different world here and Mr. James cuts no corners in telling it like it is. It can save your life."